Psychotherapy & Coaching For Men

I support high-performing professionals men to have thriving personal lives

Daniel White MA (Couns Psych)

Registered Psychotherapist (PACFA Australia) and Certified Transformational Coach (Circling Institute, USA) with over 8,000 hours experience.

online coaching and counselling for expats
Counselling clients

Some of the organisations who's staff I work with

Something out of balance? Does this sound all too familiar to you?

  • I’m doing well at work but I am not happy in my personal life. I want to figure out why.
  • She always complains I’m not emotionally available, even though I'm working my ass off to be a great partner.
  • I'm debating leaving my relationship/I just lost my relationship and could us some support.
  • My boss/partner is a very difficult character and I don't know how to set healthy boundaries with him/her.
  • I keep picking the wrong woman.
  • I am struggling with intense work related stress and anxiety
  • my alcohol/substance use is getting out of control

Many people face similar challenges. Let me show you how I can help...

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Daniel's direct, no BS style, immediately cut through to the core of what was creating problems in my relationship and helped me figure out what to do about it.

Shanti Rubens, Lawyer - Australia

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Daniel’s rare combination of cognitive clarity and presence, tempered with a deeply authentic sensitivity, make him imminently qualified to facilitate personal growth work of all sorts. Working with Daniel has helped us grow as individuals, which over time has served to deepen our level of intimacy in both direct and subtle ways.

Greg T, Programmer - Denver, Colorado

As a psychotherapist, I can help you with... 

  • Recovering from betrayal and affairs.
  • Skilfully navigating the tough conversations with difficult people in your life.
  • Repairing from chronic and repeated  personal conflicts.
  • Recovering from a  breakup or divorce.
  • Transforming old emotional habits.
  • Developing emotional intelligence. 
  • Developing a vision, model and practices for a successful intimate relationship.
  • Transforming unhealthy emotional habits from your past.
  • Becoming an effective communicatozr
  • Understand what our woman wants from you

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Daniel White is a skilled therapist and spiritual warrior. He is ballsy and gentle; heartfelt and edgy; strong and playful. He has been a keen witness to my process, artfully creating space where I feel safe and can take risks. I feel both supported and challenged in his presence. Daniel is simply a living invitation to journey in the heart.

Dr. Pierre, Physician and Founder, Helios Integrated Medicine - Boulder, Colorado

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Daniel is one of the most authentic men I’ve had the honor to meet. He wastes no time and cuts straight to the chase. Under his skillful guidance I became more aware of the obstacles that affect my well-being as well as the well-being of those around me.

Slava G, US Army, Retired - Boulder, Colorado

Some More Information About How I Work


Men are often estranged from their inner worlds – their needs, feelings and desires. Having access to their emotions wasn’t part of their early programming about how to be a man. Their alienation from themselves makes it hard to really connect in relationships. The isolation of men is pervasive. Research shows that as men age they often have only one male friend and their social networks, compared to those of women, are much less dense and more fragile.

This conditioning and social isolation often creates a negative cycle. Men who have never experienced a nourishing relationship don’t believe relationships can be sustaining and satisfying in a persistent way. Once they enter into a committed relationship, they feel pressure to be emotionally available but they lack the skills to do so. They don’t know how to be a strong man and be emotionally attuned. Their withdrawal or ambivalence can lead to their partner being critical or demanding, driving them further into their isolation and belief that relationships cannot be satisfying.

Some men, particularly those who had overbearing, critical or abusive fathers and other authority figures, become meek and ambivalent in their relationships. They drift with no real sense of purpose and without making strong choices. Other men are highly comfortable with the power and privilege that traditional social structures have provided them. They tend to be deeply uncomfortable with vulnerability and displays of emotion in themselves or in others. They fall back on habits of rigidity and anger.

 Daniel helps his male to understand and unpack their rigid habits of shutting down or getting angry. He assists them to understand the underlying emotions that drive their feelings of being suffocated and bored in relationships. Men often come to Daniel because they want newness but don’t know how to create it. They don’t know what to do after the honeymoon phase. With Daniel they learn how to continually foster a relationship, bringing richness and excitement to it and getting more of what they need.

I support professionals from these companies in their personal and professional lives

Who is Daniel White?

I’m a relationship specialist.

I challenge and guide my clients to build and sustain successful and fulfilling personal and professional relationships (starting with the one with themselves).

With fierceness, humour and humility, I champion client’s causes.

My focus is working with high-functioning professionals who encounter interpersonal relationship challenges in all domains.

My clients include hedge fund managers, CEOs and CFOs of major international firms, homeless people, bankers, pilots, corporate lawyers, teachers, medical professionals, military personnel and rabbis.

online coaching and counselling for expats

counsellor for expats ONLINE

I currently counsel men and women who work at these companies

Daniel White w Wife and Child

with my wife shelly and daughter MADDIE

Experienced Relationship Specialist

I’ve been a psychological health professional since 2002. I spend several hundred hours each year doing extensive training in the latest therapeutic and coaching modalities, in order to keep up with the cutting edge healing methods.

My expertise weaves the combination of years of mindfulness training and buddhist psychology training with  advanced studies of cutting edge developmental neuroscience and attachment theory including Psychobiological approach to Couple Therapy and Emotion focused therapy

http://www.emotionfocusedclinic.org/whatis.htm

http://the pactinstitute.com

My own relationships are the real wellspring of my knowledge and wisdom. My experience as a committed husband, father, son and friend heavily inform how I help others.

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Daniel White is a skilled therapist and spiritual warrior. He is ballsy and gentle; heartfelt and edgy; strong and playful. He has been a keen witness to my process, artfully creating space where I feel safe and can take risks. I feel both supported and challenged in his presence. Daniel is simply a living invitation to journey in the heart.

Dr. Pierre, Physician and Founder, Helios Integrated Medicine - Boulder, Colorado

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I have found Daniel to possess a truly unique ability to cut through to the real core of an issue and offer genuinely useful, insightful perspective. He’s extremely attuned, sensitive and nurturing but at the same time knows when to challenge me, to provoke thought. I have learnt so much, and developed more than I ever expected, and live a fuller, more genuine life. Eye-opening is an understatement for my experience…and I plan on continuing it

IAH, Investment Banking - Hong Kong

Where I Work

I regularly work with clients throughout Asia Pacific, Europe and the Middle East both online. I also conduct in-person intensives as required, at the following locations. With clients from more than 100 different countries, I am very familiar with cross-cultural dynamics.

My Qualifications
& Accreditations

daniel white certified and accredited therapist

Registered Psychotherapist
PACFA Australia

Masters of Transpersonal Counselling Psychology
Naropa University (Boulder, CO)

Certified PACT(Level 2) Couple Therapist
PACT Institute (Los Angeles CA

Certified Gestalt Therapist (CGT)
Boulder Psychotherapy Institute, (Boulder, CO)

Advanced Certificate in Emotional Focused Couple Therapy 
OCFI Ottawa Family and Couples Institute (Ottawa, Canada)

Certificate in Transformational Coaching
Advanced Transformational Coaching and Leadership Training Program (San Fransisco, CA)

Certified Group Psychotherapist
Boulder Psychotherapy Institute, (Boulder, CO)

Certified EMDR Practitioner
EMDR institute (Jerusalem, Israel)

Certified Transformational Coach
Circling Institute, USA